Were Threesomes the New Sexual Frontier?
In the days of sexual tolerance, are threesomes really a big deal? We now have access online to people who are ready to find couples who swing, wife swaps, and S&M. Due to this evidence, I cant really say that threesomes are the new sexual frontier. I think that they have been explored quite well at this time.
Though I have never experienced a threesome in my married life, I did dabble in one while single (in a relationship). Well, more like I was coaxed into it with alcohol. It was a test that I guess I didn't pass. My boyfriend at the time, we will call him, Mr. J. had a friend over and we were all drinking. Mr. J. decided that I should kiss his friend. It went a little further, and a little further, until a threesome was underway. Apparently, Mr. J. didn't really want me to go through with this act and had been testing my loyalty, even though he was the one coaxing me into going through with it...and filling me with alcohol. No regrets, though. Mr. J. was obviously not someone to enter into a committed relationship with.
My hubby, however, has a different spin on things. He has been engaged in threesomes during a past marriage, and I believe also outside of marriage. I don't know all of the details, and I am pretty sure that I am okay with that. We have talked about threesomes, but cant seem to get around that whole having sex with another person thing. Still kind of feels like cheating to me, and to him, at least while you are married. But, if you are single, I say go for it. Being single leaves you open for experimentation.
What are your thoughts on threesomes? Are they still taboo?
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