Are There Still Things in a Relationship That You Aren't Supposed to Say?
Absolutely! I think that this goes along the lines of the phrase, fight fair! Often times when couples get into arguments, they find the meanest things to say to one another. Some of those things cant be taken back once they are said. Telling your partner that you don't like their mother, or that they don't know how to please their mate in bed are just some of the DON'Ts in relationship fights.
Having an open line of communication when in a relationship, is very important. However, over time, you realize that there are things that your partner just doesn't want to hear and will no longer say. My husband has learned not to critisize the lack of housework that I manage to get done, since I own a business and work full time. I have learned to do the same, since he does a lot of the housework and works full time. It is just a fight that no longer needs to happen. Money is another subject that isn't the best to talk about unless absolutely necessary. I don't critisize him for what he buys and he does not ask me. It saves a lot of headaches!
What are your thoughts?
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